Note Regarding Order of Entries

The posts in the pages that follow are in this order:

May 2012: CAS Graduation—Kyle Harty Strang Spirit of CAS Award
May 2011: CAS Graduation—Kyle's loyal and loving CAS-mates move up.
March 2011: Two incredible articles that appeared in local newspapers
November: Lyrics of a beautiful song written for Kyle by Sarah Crews
July: Things shared on and around the 17th anniversary of Kyle's birth
June: Snippets of Facebook interchanges, end of school year pieces, and other things written to Kyle
May: CAS Memorial and misc. contributions received in May (in the order the comments were made)
April: Kyle's funeral and misc. contributions received in April (in the order the comments were made)
March 2010: Before Kyle's funeral and information about where to make donations in Kyle's memory

Because postings do not appear in the order they were posted, you will have to check the listing in the Blog Archive below to see whether there are posts you have not read, and then click on those posts.

If you made comments at one of the memorial events and/or if you have words about Kyle that you would like to post, send to: jbarber@berkeley.edu

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Saturday, May 1, 2010

Uncle Gary's Comments at the CAS Memorial


I’m Gary Strang, Kyle’s Uncle and Craig’s brother.  Kyle interned in my architecture office in San Francisco for the past two summers.  During that time we had lunch together nearly every day and we must have tried every lunch place that it is possible to eat at in the Mission, and we had some good talks.  I also (like Jesse) tried to talk him out of the tattoo, on different grounds.  Kyle had the Shema, the holiest prayer of Judaism tattooed on his chest which is not very traditional.  Most Jews don’t get tattoos because during WWII many people got tattooed who didn’t want to.  I tried to explain this to Kyle and encouraged him to talk to someone knowledgeable about it.  Because I was his boss, I thought I had some pull with him, but in the end he told me he had thought about it, and it wasn’t a question of being traditional;  this was right for him.

It has been amazing to meet so many of you from Kyle’s community.  You think you know someone and then you realize that they have this whole other life that you knew nothing about, this whole other world.  And that has been really beautiful to see. 

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